Bad Sex In A Good Relationship (Graphic)
So, about 6 months ago, I entered into an exclusive/committed relationship with a wonderful man. He is sweet and handsome and kind and generous and seems to adore me. We have had one major relationship test, unplanned pregnancy ending in miscarriage, but other than that, very smooth sailing. We literally found out and three days later were in the hospital. He was there the whole time and was very supportive throughout.
However, our sex life is terrible. I am in love with a "get-ER-done" man and it is awful. We usually have sex 2-3 times a day when we are together, but there is zero foreplay. Zero. Which makes me finishing virtually impossible. I spend the full 20 minutes either worrying I'm not wet enough (because he didn't take the time to get me lubed up) or I spend the full 20 minutes in fantasy land trying to get turned on.
But, here's my question, he really wants anal (and I actually like anal, it is exciting), but the deal I made with him is he has to make me cum before he gets it. This resulted in 2 minutes of him........rubbing my while we spooned and then he tried again. So, my question, does this "deal" make me a bad partner (manipulative) or is it fair?
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