Okay so I am turning 18 July 1st. And I am also going to be going to the OBGYN for the first time that same month to get on birth control and so on. The problem is I have been having sex, now ove been safe and everything but my mom has no clue. And if she were to find out she would shoot my BF and ship me off to Utah and not pay for college either. (I wish I was exaggerating). The other problem is during any doctors visits that they are like "now here are some personal questions do you want your mom to leave?" I've always said no bc before it was no big deal and she knew everything. And if I change my mind now she is going to know something is up....what do I do? If I just tell the doctor I haven't had sex will it make a difference? Please help!!!thank you.