How to give up

Mamacita
I have seen alot of post saying they fell pregnant as soon as they stopped or gave up. Can u plz share your storys so i can give up and get pregnant. I tell my self im just gona not think about it and find myself doin my same routine and thinking about it. I also have pcos have been trying for over 6 years. Have very irregular periods. Currently no period since feb and on metformin. Any success storys please share. Thank u