Any advice with parties and boys ?!

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I don't know what to do, can anyone give me advice for going to a party. My best friend is having a party and there is drinking involved. The guy that I like is going and I know he likes me (he has told me). He has said that he wants me to sleep with him in the same room and I'm not sure what to do. I want to sleep with him but I'm worried he will want to have sex with me or something- I've never made out with anyone and I'm really nervous to do so. Any advice with boys really ?

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My advice: don't go if you aren't comfortable. I've been to parties and alcohol makes everything worse.

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I think that if you feel like it's too much pressure you should stick with your girlfriends (if you feel that you must go to this party. And if you do don't drink! Last thing you need is to be stressed out about a boy and give yourself too much liquid courage. ;) ). Don't feel as if you have to give into some guy to keep his interest. You do NOT. If he's the kind of guy that you want he'll respect you and your decision, whatever that may be. I saw on one of your previous posts that you recently turned 15. My best advice to you is to wait and save that experience for someone that you truly care for (not just like) and who reciprocates those feelings. Having been 15 once and a teen mom, I look back in my initial experiences and I regret them. Yes, sex is fun, yes it's enjoyable, but it's also an emotional experience. Especially when you're still young and pretty naive to your body as yet. Just remember that while sex is fun, it's also an adult decision with adult consequences. You need to make sure that you are ready to face those if you have to. Be safe!

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Go to the party if you want but don't drink and whatever you do DONT BE ALONE WITH THAT BOY. And if you do happen to drink don't put your drink down because this creepy boy could put something in it.  Just chill with the girls and don't be alone with anyone your not comfortable with.  Make a game plan with your group before you go.  Let me know how it is.❤️❤️❤️❤️and have fun

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Have fun, but whatever you do don't drink or do drugs. Your choices in one night can effect your whole life, so be safe and smart. As for sleeping with the guy, if you don't want to have sex, don't sleep with him. Guys like that usaully mean have sex when they say sleeping. Set boundaries for yourself and don't push them. Kissing can be fun, but it's your choice it's always your choice .

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Don't drink. If you do, you might end up doing something you regret. Just lay down the rules. He can sleep with you, but no touching. If he can't handle that then he doesn't respect you and he isn't worth your time.

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I've never gone to one of those kinds of "parties" tbh but my advice to you is:Go to the party and have fun with your best friend and don't drink unless it's in a bottle like a cruiser or something weak, cs you wanna be able to cover the opening with your thumb whenever you're not drinking from it and you wanna stay in control. 
But as for the dude, are you sure he means sleep as in 😴? Or as in sexy time? Because it is questionable for him to say that lmao

Any advice with parties and boys ?!

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