Okay so my partner has VA coverage which, surprisingly enough cover some of the fertility stuff we need done. However, they don't have anywhere in northern California that provides services for men. So, they said we just need to find the doctor or clinic we want to use and they'll cover it.

Sounds great right? Except the ONE doctor who did male fertility in my town retired this week. If it's not one thing, it's another.

My question is this:

Are any of you in Northern California (north of Sacramento) and if so, can you please, please tell me who you're using for fertility services?

I'm just so close to giving up here. Two and a half years of thinking we're just around the corner from an answer and having road block after road block pop up is getting really old.