I swore it wouldn't happen...

Jenna • 🎀Addison Leigh 9/9/17 | Mia Jane 4/23/19🎀
Even though I feared it from the very beginning. Went in today for a scan and my first actual OB appointment at 10 weeks 4 days and there was no more heartbeat  baby measuring 8 weeks 1 day. I am devestated and I know how I am.  I will be so scared to try again bc I will never be able to relax. I'll always fear it will happen again. Please tell
Me this is unlikely to happen again.  
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FG

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Anyone would be lying if they said it might not happen again. I am so sorry for your loss. Talk to your doctor to learn as much as you can about what possibly happened and what you can do differently to prevent this in the future.When trying to get pregnant, stress is not your friend. It will happen for you. Have faith. The doctors told me I could not have a baby on my own. And I have a baby. I'm now trying for number 2 and I have many of the fears you have.Sending you lots of light ✨✨✨

Ch

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I'm so so sorry. I know its so hard to even consider trying again. We can't start yet but I know as soon as we do start ttc again I will be so scared. As far as I know and from what I've been told it's unlikely to happen again. I'm sure all of the statistics have been thrown at you. There's nothing I can say that will ease your pain. It's almost 3 weeks since my D&C, I'm still heartbroken but it does get easier day by day. You do manage to get through the day somehow and sometimes I get excited at the thought of feeling a little bump start to form again. That's what keeps us going. We had so much love already for our two little ones that we lost, hopefully we'll get our sticky baby next time and be so grateful that we were given another chance to love something so much. Big hugs xxx