Am I lose her to my pregnancy? I don't even feel like this is a b happy bump !

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21 weeks pregnant with 2 girls and depressed. My 15 year old getting out of control(my only one for years). Im trying the best i can but my energy keeps me limited. She have decided to go spend the entire summer with her dad and im broken. I feel like these past months have really gotten to her. Could it because she will no longer be the only child? going through her own feelings? Im so sad she chose to leave me here alone while awaiting her sisters.

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My 15 year old has been acting up for the last 6 months even before I knew I was pregnant. It's just raging hormones and I'm sure she will come around when she is ready. Try to find comfort in the fact that she has some way of having a change of scenery while she works things through. For my son, the change of scenery is provided by his grandmother no doubt it's because she spoils him rotten! Try not to let this affect the happiness that you are entitled  to  during your pregnancy. I spent about three weeks solid crying about it so I know it's easier said than done. (Hugs)

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I also have a 15 year old with twins on the way, all boys. He's spending the summer with his dad and my family down south and will be back just before school starts back. I'm also having issues with him. We found out something right after he left and are waiting until he gets back to talk to him about it. I'm hoping it's just the age, but worried he might be feeling left out.

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I think multiple pregnancy is just hard (physically emotionally) and it's difficult for kids to understand (even at age 15).  Try not to take it personally but also she's a kid and has the right to be/act like a kid.  Make sure you get support from other adults and let her come around to it in her own time.  The more you try to push things on her or make her have responsibilities with them, the more she may resist.  Hang in there mama!

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Dont take it too personal. She probably just wants to spend time with her dad and you cant blame her for that.

Am I lose her to my pregnancy? I don't even feel like this is a b happy bump !

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