So my husband and I have been poles apart these last few months, we had sex, I ended up pregnant. (Was told I had a near impossible chance of having children naturally). We ended up arguing over him cancelling on me to go to my brothers for dinner so he could help a mate out. I

Know this doesn't seem a big deal but we hardly went out together, can't tell you the last time we went for a meal or day out together... 

So the argument ended up with me telling him I'm in financial difficulty and basically need digging out of a shit situation. (I currently have a situation goin thru the police that is seriously traumatic and stressful) so to make myself feel better I had been spending money I don't have essentially... Also didn't have the guts every month to tell him I needed food shopping money coz it seemed to create an atmosphere I wanted to avoid. 

After all of this he tells me that he wants to be honest and that he doesn't love me anymore. We are currently renovating a house with a mortgage I pay and that his parents helped us get. I guess my point in all of this is I currently live in a house with a man that doesn't love me, but I'm pregnant with his child. I'm heartbroken. I feel like in one day I've lost everything. We've been together 8+ years and married for 3. He wants to sort the house out and see where we go from there. Meanwhile I feel I'm getting the cold shoulder. I come on here or online reading posts about husbands over the moon with their partners pregnancy and things they are doing together. All I do is cry at work and come home and try to cuddle up to a man than is no longer interested 😢. I appreciate things can't change over night. Let's face it I was a dick for not expressing how I felt and how I needed help with stuff sooner. I made a mistake. But he has his faults too. But being pregnant now I feel I'm going through this all on my own,without enjoying it. All I want is to be cuddled and excited for what's happening.  I dreamt of being pregnant and doing all the silly stuff and enjoying it with a man who loved me and felt the same. I don't know what to do. I'm lost.