It's a girl

First baby after 3 years of trying. We were both super excited and now that we know it's a girl my husband is super upset. He wanted a boy... He was so mad at me where he didn't want to talk to me for the day...he kept telling me name her disappointment, and other mean things id rather not repeat. (nothing about aborting her or any harm towards her) . Like I get it you wanted a boy but knew there was a chance for a girl... Anyone else go thru this? I don't want our relationship to change or be damaged because our first child is a girl. I am so excited to be able to have a child and I am gonna love this little girl so much. Her nana (she doesn't want to be called grandma) is so excited to have a little girl in the family tho so I am hoping his mom can help kick him into gear for a little girl..