Change of plans ?

Question

So my husband and I have been ttc for about 3 months now. No luck so far. Well today he tells me he's changed his mind and he wants me to start birth control. He says a baby will just complicate things right now. My heart is broken! I was so excited and looking forward to becoming parents. I'm just not sure how I'm going to cope with this. It's even worse than getting those BFN's. Any advice on how to move on from this?

Answer

Try revisitjng the conversation in a few days after doing something sweet and romantic together where he's in a good mood. Explain it's very important to you, in fact it's a non-negotiable... Ask him to reconsider but do it in a non threatening and sweet way. Use those puppy dog eyes ?

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Sometimes, TCCing affects men too, although they don't show it as much as we do. Show him some of the things you've been learning in passing and be more open to talking. It's worth it, even though you can't see the end of the tunnel yet. ?

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How long have you been trying?

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My husband never wanted kids from the start he just lied to me until our wedding night then the whole truth  a me out.

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My fiancé did they but we never followed through and now I'm pregnant!

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Has something happened to make him change his mind?

Change of plans ?

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