I got my BFP 5/23, after two and a half years of trying. With hormonal issues, husband being in the military and traveling, I FINALLY got my bfp. After all the "why does she get a baby?" And "when will it be my turn?" And all the jealousy and the hate and the disappointment. This is for those women asking "what did you do differently?" This is it. I DID take ovulation tests. I got a tip from a gal on here to test between 9am and 12pm, and sure enough I found my surge. Hubby and I did not have sex every day. I actually thought we missed the most important day, but we BD every chance we got (not more than once a day). I didn't put my legs in the air, or lay flat after sex. I tried to throw myself into work and school and "not think about it", but YEAH RIGHT. I couldn't stop thinking about my might-be baby. So I took time out of every day to remind myself "my body knows what it's doing. My body knows how to make a baby. My body was made for this. This is human nature." Every day I repeated this over and over. I ate pineapple and I orgasmed (I read that it helps) and maybe it did!