Would you stay with him or leave?

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Let me set the situation:
Let's say you're married, have been for 3 years. 
You and you're husband have a child, let's say a baby, 6 months old. 
You find out here's cheating on you, has been for a few months. When I say cheating, I mean texts and phone calls, dinners and dates, and a sexual relationship. 
He admits that it's all true. Nothing more, nothing less. 
Do you stay with him knowing all this? Or do you get a divorce?

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I love my husband. More than life itself. We made a promise to each other and we take that very serious. We both believe cheating is the lowest thing you can do to someone,  especially someone you claim to love.... If he cheated he isn't the man I married... And I have no use for him in my life... I know he feels the same

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I'd have to leave. I could never feel the same way about him.

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I don't understand why this is a question. You don't stay with someone who breaks your trust and disrespects your relationship and family.

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The only way I would stay is if I got to fuck someone else for a few months and see how he liked it.

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He'd be gone. If he cheated he obviously didnt love me

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I would pray and have spiritual meditation on the situation, fast etc. I would definitely try to work it out and not seek retaliation or vengeance, that is the Lord's job to deal with not mine or that makes me just as bad. If it happened again i would definitely consider seperation. But divorce is a very very very final resort for me.

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I made a vow to make things work and I will try everything I cannot until we cannot make it work anymore.

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I say leave him because he's not just doing it to you but your child and that's fucked up. I already been through a lot with my husband and we are hitting our five year anniversary in oct & our first child is due August 29th.. If he were to do that when we have a child I already told him I'm taking the baby and won't be coming back.

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There will never be the same trust and that's such a horrible way to treat any person especially the one you love.

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If it was a one time slip up and he seemed genuinely sorry Id consider staying but what you're talking about is him having an entire relationship on the side. That's an orchestrated well thought out situation and I could never stay. I'd rather move back in with my parents than be with a man who did that.

Would you stay with him or leave?

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