Would you break up with someone?...

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Would you break up with someone because they had bad teeth (crooked, yellow, etc.- NOT meth mouth) and nasty scars from body acne and two keloid scars on their stomach?

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None of those things can be helped. People can't choose the way their body scars. People can't choose to get acne scars or not. Also, people don't choose to have crooked teeth. Maybe they can't afford braces. As long as they take care of their oral hygiene, it's not a big deal to me.

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If you love them it shouldn't matter. But ... We're all human and if you don't think you could ever get over it, be fair to them and give them the opportunity to find someone who will love them no matter what they look like!

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Why did you get with them in the first place if you had a problem with these things?

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That's like my boyfriend not staying with me cause I have one hand. It's something that you just can't change. Pretty shallow to not be with someone cause of their imperfections.

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I have keloid scarring on my shoulder from when I had chicken pox and there is literally nothing I can do about it, should my husband have not married me? I think if you are asking that question you probably should, not because of those things they can't help but because it sounds like you don't think much of them.

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I am usually very vey physical... but it has happened to me that I end up really liking a person with a ton of esthetical "flaws", by I just can't not be with them even if I wanted to not be with them because I like who they are... and so, the flaws... I still see and maybe they might bother me/I might not like them but I wouldn't leave them because I really like the rest of them.

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That's just very shallow. Not one person is perfect. Everyone is going to come with flaws. If you can't accept them as them (with their flaws) and love a person for who they are, then yes. You should leave him to someone else who will. My boyfriend is permanently crippled with tons of scars, crooked teeth, a metal rod in his leg, even walks with a little limp, cannot run to save his life, and has a speech impairment, all caused by a serious wreck and was in a coma for months. This was all years before we met, and knowing him now, I don't even pay no attention to any of it. I love him the way he is. Imperfection is beauty and it makes each one of us unique. I took him exactly how he is and would never ask to change a single thing. I would never leave him for his physical appearance. If your ashamed of him and worried about what others may think, then your not gonna get very far with your relationships. And that's just the sad truth. Me and my boyfriend hold each others hands and show affection PROUDLY. And that's the way it should be!

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I have an 1/8th inch gap between my two front teeth that I'm extremely insecure about because people have picked on me for it my whole life. My parents couldn't afford braces when I was little, and when I went to a free orthodontist appointment when I was 16, they said that my tongue was too large for my mouth and even if I got braces, my tongue would push my teeth back to their original position within 2 years of getting them. My options were to permanently wear a retainer or get my tongue shaved so that it was smaller (and my insurance didn't cover any of those or the braces alone).

I can somewhat understand not wanting to be with someone because of their weight, because it's usually poor life choices they're making (and i'm fat, too so I'm not just being a dick about it), but to judge/not want to be with someone because of things they can't control? That's pretty shallow.

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