Please read this and help me.. I don't know what to do anymore :'(
It's about my boyfriend, we've been together a year today and the past few weeks he's been acting different. This May sounds really stupid but he doesn't seem like he wants to come near me lately, he sleeps on the sofa more (he doesn't like sleeping in beds as it's uncomfortable to him and he's done this since we first got together but not this much) he used to come to bed and give me cuddles and now, it's all stopped? He won't cuddle me, he hardly sleeps in the bed at all unless I nagg at him, I have to ask for a hug or a kiss now and even then he seems like he's trying to get out of it /: even in a jokey
I've cried myself to sleep so many times! I go to sleep most nights wondering if there's something wrong with me or if I'm just not what he wants anymore.. Don't get me wrong, he's never been overly affectionate, he's had a bad past so he doesn't like showing anyone he has feelings or cares for someone in worry they may get hurt.
A few days ago, he got really annoyed/ angry with me because I told him I love him (we have already said it to each other before) then on the night time I was feeling really upset because of it so I asked if I could have a cuddle and he got angry again.. He's been really moody the past few days, he accused me of chatting up one of my childhood friends, constantly makes little comments about my eating and won't spend time with me unless he's playing on his ps3.
I flipped not long ago cause I was sick of it, it was really getting me down that he made no effort to start a convosation or even look at me if I tried! He's still doing it now! He's a 24 year old man that has the same mind as a 12 year old!
Sex has gone downhill to. We hardly do anything and if/ when we do, it's either blow jobs or sex (if he wants it at all) it feels like I'm being a bit used at the end mostly always! He won't kiss me during sex. He gets weird if I don't moan loud and stuff like that and says that it was shit if I wasn't moaning loud enough and he always asks about it after like "was that any good?" and it makes me feel weird. It's like he constantly seeks a grade on his performance.
He won't lay in the bed for long after either, I like a little together time after making love ( like just kissing each other or being in each others arms) but it seems to repulse him? I don't know anymore. Could I be that bad? I've only ever had compliments.
I've considered that he's a cheat but he never leave the house unless he has to or is with me, which isn't often. I've cheat his phone and all sorts looking for an explaination but thes nothing that hint towards a reason why he's being like this. I'm just to confused! There's probably more to say but I can't think of much more now. My head hurts and I've had hardly any sleep because of it all.
I guess I need a little advise? /:
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