I don't know what else to do.

My husband hasn't had a job in over a year and hasn't even made an attempt to get one. I work as a CNA. I love my job, but it is hands down the most exhausting job I've ever had. I'm so sick of working my ass off every day and him not even raising a finger to try to help.

I ask him to clean the house while in at work. (Seems fair, right?) I ask almost everyday when I'm leaving for work and he has done a half ass job of ONE room twice in the last year.

I'm trying to be patient with him because I just keep thinking he's going through something.. but my patience is about worn out. Any advice?