Birth control and doctor issues!

Mrgiota
I'm currently taking the pill by the name gildess fe 1/20 and I've had problems from day one. I haven't had a period for months and after having this crazy pressure on my lower abdomen for days i called my doctor. I mentioned to her that I have calf pains and she immediately shut down. She won't change my pill, she says that it's up to me to continue or discontinue my medication and she won't do anything unless my calf pain is addressed by my pcp. I asked her " do you think it's a blood clot? " and she said "maybe" so I asked should I go to the ER or wait for a few days and she said that it's up to me. At this point I'm furious because she is refusing to give me any insight on my problems caused by the drug SHE put me on. If it's all up to me when why the hell should I have a doctor? Mind you she didn't even warn me that it's a potential blood clot I just happen to ask "is that what you think it is"? Ladies help me out please. Any of you with similar problems and did you end up having a blood clot? Also I'm waiting until Tuesday and then I'm getting blood work done! Thanks for reading!