One of my aunts, the one that takes care if my grandparents, is very jealous and spiteful. She is mad about how many people are invited and keeps saying that I only need like ten good things to only have a few family members and it's like ummmm no, keep in mine she never had children, now she doesn't want to come and she dosnt want my grandparents to go because she's not going. I'm really upset she keeps saying I'm waistimg my money but I'm not even throwing my shower, my husbands aunt is.