Okay ladies would you tell your husband all the things his own mother says about him? His mom and stepdad came over to fix a hole in our roof. (Long story short his mom is our our landlord). Anyway his mom always had a nasty habit of talking to him in a horrible way and degrading him as a man. Well today she was upset that the back deck was a mess because my husband has a bad habit of just leaving things out there. I can understand why she would get upset but then she said "I don't what makes him feel like a man." Then later on she   comes to me and tells me "you deserve better than my son". My husband can get lazy sometimes so I really understand her fustration towards at times but to say things like that is a bit disrespectful in my opinion. She's said much worse things. I want to tell my husband the things she said but I really don't want to start any drama. I'm 38 weeks so I don't need that stress if there were to be any. What would you ladies do? Would you tell your husband all the things his own mother says about him? Or just leave it alone?