Why is my child's name such a big deal??

Morgan
My family is driving me crazy! I'm pregnant with my 2nd child and they think they can tell me what to name the baby and if I say no they throw a huge fit. It was the same with my son they were mad at me for months after he was born and it's gonna be the same with this one too. I told them I am going to name the baby Karter if it's a girl and they freaked out and told me absolutely not that it's a boy name and i cannot name my daughter that and if it's a boy then his name has to be Ryan whether I like it or not and I DONT. It's so frustrating. 😡😡