Anyone else with this problem??

Okay so when me and my man have sex he likes to grab my ass and pull on my cheeks (which turns me on like no other 😍) but the skin between my vag and anus gets extremely tender and even rips. It's not necessarily from him doing that and it'll even happen from sex alone. It's so painful and makes it so we have to take breaks from sex but we're both extremely sexual people so it's super frustrating. Has this happened to any of you other ladies and if so, did you find anyway to prevent and treat it?