A Sex Question?

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My boyfriend and I want to have sex. He said no matter what would happen if I got pregnant or not, he would stay with me. We have been dating for 2 and a half years and we think we are ready. But we are just scared. Is there anything someone can say to help us out. Ryan is really sweet and says he would be fine with a baby, but I don't want one yet... I've told him, and we have talked about sex but the hole "first time" thing kinda scares us. But there is a first time for everything... Can anyone help?

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on birth control he will explain from there 
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​Hope this helps  :-) 
​Don't be afraid to ask me any other questions I'm here to help , I kind found myself in the same situation you and your boyfriend are in .
​ Back when we started to date & it's funny cause we are actually like you all we have 2 years and half together & striving for more happy years together 
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birth control prescribed by your regular doctor who will basically send you to a women doctor called an OBGYN Doctor , now that women's doctor will talk to you about sex and tell you which method  is better for you to protect yourself from having baby's & prescribe you the medicine . or you can use condoms which only protect you from transmitted disease the most and pregnancy aswell but personally I don't really recommend condoms if your not on birth control Because if it rips And your in the in middle of sex , your boyfriend might leak his sperm in you And you may become pregnant . All in all it comes down to you choosing if you want to use condoms which are risky but are completely safe if you use it right but it's more safer to take birth control , once seeing your regular doctor and asking him you want to go on birth control he will explain from there

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Hello,
​First of all I'm glad you both as a couple are communicating about the topic "sex " because many couples don't and have sex at the spare moment which leads to unprotective sex, transmitted diseases & pregnancy. Sex is a big responsibility and huge step in a relationship it changes a lot . I see that you don't want to have a baby yet , which is perfectly fine there is always going to be a right moment for kids to come into your life. If you been with your boyfriend for that long as you say I'm pretty sure you parents are aware of it . Therefore you should have an open communcation with your parents about sex , im pretty sure They have gave you that talk before lol what parents doesn't , yes it might be uncomfortable because there your parents but it's good to have that open communication with them . when having sex you need to practice safe sex especially if you don't want a baby yet that means you can either take

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It's natural to be a little scared. You said that you and your boyfriend have talked about sex, but have you talked about birth control? Condoms or the Pill? Sex between two people is something that you'll never forget! And because this is your first time, you'll want to make sure you're 100% ready for this. You'll also  want to make sure it's prepared and as relaxing as it can be for the both of you! It'll be less painful and you'll be less worried of something unexpected happening. And if you practice safe sex you shouldn't have to worry about a baby yet. Babies are lots of work! There's no rush into parenthood. Be safe and enjoy this time with your boyfriend :)

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