Why don't men get it!!! I think the reason why we have been having to try for 2 years. Is because my husband thinks it should just happen! Well yes it can just happen for people who maybe don't work opposite work schedules... He has a cold no sex, his back hurts no sex, he has a headache no sex. What a woman! Lol How do you get them more involved or how do you get him to understand!?!