Sex with him or not???

Joy
When I really like a guy I get really attached. Usually when they find out that I don't want to have Sex with him until I'm in a commited relationship they bail. I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend last December because I thought he was the one (I wanted to wait until it was right). But now that we've broken up I can't find anyone who wants to talk without having sex. I really like this guy right now but he stopped talking to me for a week after I told him I wouldn't sleep with him. I'm currently 20 and don't want to look back on life thinking that I should have slept with so and so but I also don't want pages of guys that I've been with. What do I do? Any suggestions? Any ideas on how to make him push that sex idea out of his head?