boyfriend and I live togethe , and he has a job where he's constantly stressed since it's a sales job, he's often came home bummed out but I always cook for him give him a back rub massage his feet and that normally makes him feel better(and I don't mind massaging him), but yesterday when he got home his food was already served on the table, he came in and didn't even look at me, he didn't drink his soda or anything and then I asked if he was still hungry, he just shook his head he didn't say anything, then we just left his food there and went to the couch and turned the tv on, then I went to go grab the lotion and sat next to him told him out your foot on top of my lap and he just shook his head, so I left to the room and closed the door because I felt dumb, and this morning when I texted him while I was at work he never replied. Am I trying too hard? He normally talks to me if I did something to upset him but he's just been ignoring me...