Huge fight over a trivial issue. Help.

So my husband works very long hours and we do not do much except work and be home on most days. Going out is rare. Somedays I get really lonely and that makes me depressed and quite. Yesterday was one of those days. He got backa after working 14hours  to a gloomy me. Well I couldnt help it and on his asking I told him I was just sad. He just hugged me and got ready for the gym and left. I was hoping to get more from him. So when he got back, I told him how I felt and he just listened to me and then slept. I agree he must have been tired but then I really needed him. Today again he got back after a similar shift and did not care to even talk about what I said last night. He had talked to me during the day andhadn't said   anything then either. I lost my cool and when he aksed me why I looked to depressed, I said why bother to ask when you dont want to do anything about it. We got into a huge fight, hurting remarks and silent treatment basically. I felt sorry he was tired and ended up going to him several times but couldnt talk calmly each time. He is sleeping now and I feel so rejected. His parents are visiting and I never wanted it to become a drama. Even though we were in outlr room, i assume they  sense it. I feel like he does not care enough. Talking doesn't help. I love him but what do i do.