Whats the point in having a birth plan

Hello Beautiful Momma's

I am really not understanding what's the point in having birth plans when your body is not cooperating with your birth plan.

I am almost spending thrice for the delivery just for the sake of wanting a natural birth and what did I get in return same thing as it is being done in routine hospitals but with the longest waiting period

I'm so depressed n heart broken can't feel any joy of being pregnant without any complications for the first time.

There hasn't been a single day that I didn't cry n a single night hoping to wake up with contractions from the time I am 41 weeks.