Overwhelmed

DeAsia
Hey guys, I hope somebody can relate to me. I'm a first time mom also young, my baby will be her in 3 weeks and I just feel so overwhelmed already because everybody already has there hands on my baby before she even gets here. My best friend is saying after the second week she wants time with the baby like how the hell are you giving me a week to bond with my baby then my boyfriends mother is all like I know you guys will want alone time so just leave the baby with me. I can't talk to him about it because I know he will feel some kind of way, and I know these ppl mean well but this is my baby and I almost feel like I want to be selfish with her. I just don't know... Am I wrong for having these feelings?