Leading them on?

Question

I've had a few times when I had to say no to guys. It's not that I've had commitment issued, it's just that I'm not ready to date: I don't have time for guys just yet. And before you ask, I am straight, fall head over heels for some boys sometimes (I internalize my emotions, I don't want rumours running around). Anyways, I feel like sometimes I am leading guys on unintentionally... I don't know what to do! I don't want to start dating until I'm mostly finished University. Also, I'm not the most attractive, so please don't think guys are throwing themselves at me, I just want to know what to do the next time it happens? Anyone experienced this before?

Answer

Just right off the bat tell them you're not interested in a relationship that way they expect nothing, but don't flirt all the time cause they'll think you're a tease

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Don't feel like you have to change the way you are just because men take things the wrong way. Just let them know your intentions from the beginning of whatever conversation there might be so there's no confusion. If you set it straight from the beginning it's much easier.

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All the time. Women lead on men and don't realize it because they confuse friendliness with flirting. I hang out with more guys than girls so I know plenty about this  every time you notice them taking something the wrong way, back off a little. Never be a tease, be direct with them, and remember, only awkward if you make it awkward.