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Hillary • Sat, Jul 09

So hubby and I have been together for less than a year. I moved in in March. Ish. Got pregnant. Got married. I have a 4 year old.

We live in a 700 sq ft one bedroom apt. It's cramped. It's messy. There is no room for any of mine or her things. So stuff is usually thrown about. The living room is her room pretty much that's where all her stuff is.

He is constantly bitching about the apartment being a mess.

I have almost no where to put anything. No closets. No dresser. The room is to small. I have two plastic dressers that are full and fall over from the weight. My makeup is in the floor in front of my mirror because he has like 50 things already on the sink. My daughters bed is next to ours. So there is little room.

So he is constantly bitching and telling me in lazy and I don't clean. Like I'm sorry where would you like me to put this shit ?

I'm not the one who leaves dishes sitting on the counters because you can't put them away. Or grocerys just sit in the floor for weeks.

Or the stove top to get caked with food and left there.

But I'm messy ?

And today my daughter spilt some paint on the carpet which I tried to scrub up but I had no carpet cleaner so I was using kitchen cleaner which didn't work well.

She also has some kinetic sand that is yeah all over the carpet. But it's easily picked up it doesn't stain or get ground in. So he went off on me because I let her play with paint and sand.

When she spilled the paint I had just left the room to the kitchen to go set up her paint table. And came back and she had it opened and in the floor.

Shit happens. I mean fuck dude like I can't keep my eyes glued to her every second.

We're having a baby as well and I keep asking him what he's gonna do when his kid makes messes. His reply is I will teach him to not make messes. Like. Good fucking luck with that buddy.

He is one of those no it alls. I literally can tell him something I know for a fact. And this happens everyday. And he will argue with me telling me I'm wrong until I shove it in his face.

Over and over.

He's never had a kid. Never been around kids much for extended periods of time except for mine who he is always antagonizing and picking fights with to rile her up. " annoying her"

And he really thinks that his kid will be any different. My daughter is a good kid. She listens well and always asks before she does things for the most part

But SHES 4 fucking years old like she's not 30 dude. She's gonna be messy. She's gonna ruin the carpets. She's going to get food on your shirt.

She's going to drop and break things.

His attitude about parent hood has me questioning our relationship honestly. Like I'm hormonal yah. But I cannot deal with someone so serious and has a stick drove so far up his ass he walks on his tip toes. I'm laid back as fuck. I'm a hippy. I walk with no shoes. HE WONT LET ME GO OUTAIDE WITH BARE FEET BECAUSE HE DOESNT WANT THE CARPET TO GET DIRTY.

In just so fucking agervated idk what to do to deal with this

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