Sweep it under the rug!

Just a quick vent session, I work part time (about 10 hours) and also a full time student in college on top of all the every day things we all do. My SO and I recently got our place and he complains all the time that I don't pick up! Now he is busy too I get it but why is it put on me?! I just wish he would come home and do dishes or something! Our house is lived in, it's messy but in no way is it "dirty". Anyone else need to vent? ??