Do you feel bad when people get pregnant right away?

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So i've been TTC for about 4-5 months now and still nothing .. I know it's still early but i feel like whenever people say they got pregnant in the first try, or weren't even trying when they got pregnant it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me .. Does anyone else feel that way?

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Yes. It gets frustrating and depressing at the same time. Yours and my time will come! Stay positive!

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Yeah. Especially when its their second or third. Or if they weren't even trying. I feel like a failure

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Yes I must admit. I'm very hurt watching all my friends have babies and going to the showers. It depresses me fully.

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We've only been REALLY trying for two months now but I've been waiting 
7 YEARS to atleast start trying again. ? (My hubs wouldn't until now) and it is SO hard to watch everyone younger then me and and my age having babies or their second babies. And I'm over here like "Yay! So happy for you!" ?  And I HATE when people ask "When are you going to have another baby?" Or "When are you going to get pregnant?" UGH!!! I want one okay! BAD! So I'm praying it happens quick since I've waited so long. I'm afraid if it takes forever he'll stop wanting to try ?

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Same :(

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Very frustrating. I've been trying for a year ?

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We've been ttc for 3 months now, I know it's not that long but there's so many people that get it the first time. I always have people asking when we are going to have a kid and even people that straight up ask if I'm pregnant because I'm pretty skinny but bloat all the time so my stomach looks as if I have a baby. It's really starting to weigh on me. Now a girl I work with just announced she's pregnant with her 3rd and I just want to know that I can get pregnant at this point!

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Yes I get frustrated seeing all my friends posting stuff about havinn babies... I'm excited and happy for them but I still get upset because I wish it were me.  My SO and I are trying to stay positive but it's so hard when every other day we are finding out people we know are having babies and it is not happening for us. Hopefully we will all have some luck this month! Baby Dust to everyone :)

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Same here Im Always around someone tgsts constant ly getting pregnant it ma kes me feel like I can't hsve child

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Yes! Took a year and a half for my first one and now trying for second, been trying since June ?