I am planning (oh no a woman is making plans) i am going to ask the man i love to marry me next year on may 18th 2017. When me and him got together it was love from the start we have an amazing bond with one another he is my best friend .. My hero .. My soulmate and the father of our future children. We talk about getting married but i always tell him I'm going to ask you to marry me one day. He always laughs saying no way. He has told me he wants to marry me .. But hopefully he doesn't beat me to the big question (will you marry me) i am slowly but surely planning this day out but i am at a loss .. About getting him a ring when i ask him .. Do i get him a simple ring? engagement ring? I know if the man is asking the big question (engagement ring) but how about for the man? ..