Entire world was flipped

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Sara
I have posted my story so many times so I'm sure you are familiar. If not let me know and I can go into details. 6 year relationship ended two months ago and I lost a lot. His family, my home, the house we were about to buy, him. My life basically started over and I just can't get myself back together. I lost my best friend, partner and love of my life. I just don't know how I can come back from this. 
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LT

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I went thru the exact same. Had to move In with my folks, had not a lot more than my clothes and books. Moved. Lot the first few years. Felt very alone, but I wasn't afraid to lean on my friends and family, and to talk about it. It took time, and therapy, but I got over it. I went back to school, I made some advancements in my job, I bought my own place. And 7 months ago (over 10yrs after my breakup) I have met the most wonderful man. It will get better, you just have to live thru the rain. 

Mi

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I went thru a divorce after my husband cheated & I thought I would never ever survive. I totally know how you feel. Unfortunately the only healer is time. I also started seeing a therapist. My entire life revolved around him and I didn't know how to survive. I promise even tho you don't see it now- it WILL get better. One day at a time. 

Sa

Sara • Jul 13, 2016
Thank you! I can't wait for that day

ab

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I Know exactly how you feel.. I got out of a 6 year realtionship not too long ago after I found out he was cheating on me. I fell into the worst depression, I felt betrayed, alone, worthless.. But I got through it.. I'm here and I'm the happiest I've been in a long time. It takes time, day by day it will get better.. Surround yourself with positive people, & try not to be alone. What I did that helped me a lot is I would do something to keep me occupied throughout the whole day so by the night time I would be exhausted & I wouldn't have to think of the horrible situaution I was going through. I would also wake up every morning and tell myself "this is hard but I'll be happy soon and I'm going to get through this" think of it as something temporary you're going through,. It will get better trust me..

Sa

Sara • Jul 13, 2016
Thank you!!!

Je

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One day, one step, one breath at a time. It gets better. Just do what you have to do and keep going. Trust me it gets better. Good luck!

Br

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I was in an extremely abusive relationship for almost 3 years when I moved back home. I'd wake up in the middle of the night screaming and shaking, this went on for months. I finally decided enough was enough and I put my past in the past and moved on. Now I'm happily married to my best friend, we're going on our 1 year wedding anniversary on the 25th of this month. I know it's hard to pick up the pieces sweetie but I promise it gets easier. 

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Girl it's hard. The best answer is probably just give it time. Take it day by day. Do what you have to do to get through each day and remember it's okay to cry. One day you'll wake up and realize you haven't cried in three weeks or you'll try to remember the last time you thought about the situation. It took me almost two years to get over my ex boyfriend but now I'm so happily married to my best friend. It gets better but it takes time. You can do it and you'll be stronger for it.