Two consecutive miscarriages

I just want to express again how hurtful it is for me to get all excited and start spending and shopping, not one time but TWO times in a row. Just for both times to end in miscarriages. How embarrassing it is to tell close family both times and then have to give them bad news shortly after. How unfair it feels to see maternity pics and new borns and honestly can't be as happy as you want to be because the sorrow of the babies you lost is soooo overwhelming. 
I thought I handled these miscarriages okay. But I think I really just suppressed everything to make myself believe I'm okay. 
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Ni

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Imm so sorry to hear of your losses.. iv had 2 miscarriages aswell and no children to count.. it soooo hard an frustrating to go through.. and the constant roller coaster of emotions everytime someone else anounceese there expecting. Im soo sorry your goin through this.. 😯😯

Ni

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I have also had two miscarriages. It's devastating and the pain never truly goes away. I'm thankful for these support groups. I'm sorry for your losses. 

Em

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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I had my third consecutive miscarriage in May and it truly is devastating. However or whatever you feel is ok and it's so important to get any support you feel you need. I've talked very openly about my miscarriages and found that, although I've heard every cliche under the sun, it has still been very therapeutic to talk about it to people xx

Sa

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I'm so sad to read that. I had two consecutive miscarriages last year and I'm struggling to get pregnant again. Time does heal so hang on in there! All the luck to you ✨

Li

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I am feeling the same. Sometimes I feel like I just can't do or get anything done because the pain is so overwhelming. I also can't share the pain with anyone because they don't understand or don't know. Even my husband refuses to talk about it and told me to stop obsessing when I was just giving him some facts I read up about. 

Ta

Ta • Jul 22, 2016
:( I wish my husband could've been more supportive at a time like that. I really needed him to be. And I still have a very hard time with the loss and I'm sure he doesn't know.

Ma

Maria • Jul 22, 2016
I'm a Christian woman and my husband said the same thing it's time to move on we can't bring that baby back but then I think to myself you didn't feel the life getting stripped out of your body with every time you moved there was blood and Tissue coming out you didn't feel that I did in it as a constant reminder of what was lost

Ta

Ta • Jul 20, 2016
Every baby or pregnant woman I see, I feel that emptiness inside of me and it's still so hurtful!

La

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Having a miscarriage is nothing to be embarrassed about!  I have had 2 miscarriages as well and I still can't talk about it without crying most days.  Don't be afraid to be angry or sad or broken hearted.  Sometimes you need to feel these things so you can heal.