So recently I've been sleeping with a guy who lives 30 min away from my house. I don't want a serious relationship, but more a friends with benefits type one. I live in a different state at the moment due to work, but I come back to my hometown once every 2 weeks. The last time we had sex was Sunday, I want to text him, but I'm afraid he'll think I'm attached (which I'm not, I just want sex). I won't be back to my home state for 12 days, what should I do? Wait until I'm back to hit him up, or now?