Idk what to say! ?

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So, I really want to try and conceive. But my boyfriend and I have only been dating a little over a month/: I know he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with for sure! Although I have no idea how to bring this up, because idk how he will feel about having a baby so soon in our relationship. He's getting deployed and I'd like to start a family with him already. Please help me on how to bring this up to him!

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Honestly, if I had been dating someone for only a month, and that person started talking about having a family already, I would RUN. That would scare the bejeezus out of me. 
Whatever your choice is, good luck and best wishes.

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Would this be the first deployment you've experienced? How about for him? Deployments are difficult, they test even the strongest relationships and some cases break them apart in the end. To go through one you need a solid foundation with more then just love. I've seen many military couples get pregnant prior to "save the relationship".... It's the best way to keep something in common, have something to look forward to and in many cases a guarantee in trust. However those are not reasons to bring another human into this world. As a military wife I strongly suggest you work on preparing your relationship for what's to come and then celebrating at the end of deployment with plans to conceive. Best of luck to you and thank you to both of you for all the sacrifices a military couple make!

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Seriously, what until he comes back from deployment. If you can't bring it up its probably a good sign it's not the time. Deployment is stressful enough with out throwing a pregnancy into the mix.

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I would suggest waiting a little bit

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just casually say, "what would happen if I got pregnant?" If he's happy and would be okay with it bring up the idea of ttc. if he seems worried then it's probably too early