What does sex mean to you?

Question

What does sex mean for you? Like when you're about to have sex, what are you thinking or hoping to achieve?

I'm not sure if it's weird but for me sex is showing my SO that I love him enough to wanna make him feel good, I'm not really  getting into it looking to orgasm but I feel as if I should. I crave the intimacy a lot of the time before I get into it as well.

Does anyone feel the same?

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It's definitely about making him feel good. After having my 2 daughters it takes a lot longer for me to get off anymore (like damn near impossible) which was never the case before my babies. He always feels bad if they wake up and he doesn't get to help me finish but I'm always telling him as long as I can make him feel good it doesn't bother me because I love knowing I can do that for him and I love the intimacy and either way it's fun whether I get off or not lol.

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For me, it's making my boyfriend feel good on another level and connecting deeply through emotions expressed during sex. Bonding in a different way and showing our deepest forms of love for each other. :) sounds so cheesy but I explained the best I could lol

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Yes yes yes!!! I always do it to show my boyfriend how much I love him. I've never been a one night stand kinda girl, I dunno. I just love him so much, and that's one of the ways I show him :)

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Well yes, I see it as a deeper expression of my love for and attraction to my SO as well as showing him how much I trust him and want him, but that's in the case of having sex with him. And I mean of course I want to satisfy him and be satisfied as well, but I don't stress about it. Before with others I didn't care about, it was different.

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It represents our love and passion for each other.

What does sex mean to you?

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