Just Married & the blues! Ugh

So my husband and I have been married for four months now and we barely have sex. Idk what it is. Last month we went 22 days w/o having intercourse. We only be because my fertile window came up and even then it was every other day. We only bd like 7 times If that. He doesn't like to receive or give oral and he doesn't do foreplay to get me started when we finally do bd. He claims he wants a child and I'm just wondering how he thinks it's gonna happen w/o having sex. I am a sexual being. I love affection but I can't seem to get it. I do things like cook in heels with my panties and bra. I do dance routines to Ciara Body Party with heels. I send sexy pictures trying to keep the spark alive. I try everything possible that other men would love and get nothing from him. He is not cheating. I love him so but idk how much more I can take. Sometimes my mind ventures into cheating and trying something new. It's only because of the promise I made to God when I took my vowels that I haven't. Has anyone dealt with not getting affection from your husband's so early in the marriage??