I'm now expecting my first baby and had a baby shower. Invited her. She couldn't make it which is fine. But not even a card or a gift was sent. We had a small wedding with just family so didn't invite her to that. I feel like I've spent a lot of money on attending her events and buying her gifts and I dont get so much as even just a card. We're not as close since she's moved away and now has a family of her own. But am I wrong to feel this way?