Post partum depression after mc?

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Okay so I had a miscarriage of my first child when I was 12 weeks along. It wasn't a planned pregnancy and i wasn't sure if I was going to put it up for adoption or keep it before the miscarriage. So after the miscarriage I just decided it was gods sign of saying it wasn't time. Now about a month later, I cry all the time and I am gaining weight like crazy, and seem to want nothing more than to lay in bed. I could sleep all day every day. My boyfriend tries to cheer me up but nothing works. Could it be possible I am suffering from post partum depression?

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Postpartum depression is depression after giving birth. You had a miscarriage at 12 weeks. You are probably depressed, but it wouldn't be considered postpartum.

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You may not have postpartum depression but you are still probably very depressed. I would suggest going to therapy. Not all wounds can heal themselves.

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A miscarriage can be very traumatic even if the pregnancy is unwanted. My second miscarriage was the most traumatic of the three. Two years later I sometimes still have a hard time dealing. It's not anywhere near as bad as it was but I still have my moments.

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It's normal to feel depressed after losing a baby. The physical pain, hormonal plunge, and emotional trauma take some time to heal. It's a very dark & lonely feeling, but it gets better with time. You might benefit from some counseling or group therapy. Hang in there!

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I also lost my first child. It wasn't planned but we welcomed it with open arms. The day of the miscarriage I will never forget nor will I ever get over. I lost our baby April 2013 and I still cry about it. I was completely depressed for about six months before I could even get myself to smile again. I wish you luck and better thoughts.