I am not motivated or aroused to have sexual intercourse at all. I love my boyfriend and being close to him. But I am never up to have sex, like I have to talk myself in to it. And it's cause so many arguments and issue with him and I hate it. I wish I was just up to it and willing to just jump him whenever but it's just not there. It used to not be like that, I just don't know what to do to get it back.