I have been bestfriends with this guy for 2 years, he's going to the Air Force soon. we both want to have sex before he leaves, but I'm a virgin and he doesn't know, should I? (he's 3 years older than me.. I'm kinda crushing)

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help!!

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I'd say no, only because he's gonna leave and sex with him will only make your feelings grow. And that's hard. It'd make things unnecessarily difficult

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Id say no because it kinda makes me question on why you guys want to have sex but not be together???? Like??? I'm sorry but that doesn't seem right to me,  especially if you have feelings for him, if anything I think you should tell him how you feel before he leaves and if he gets awkward then yeah, mostly because it'll be just about sex,  I know you're his best friend but still, I don't know, but in all honesty it is up to you

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If you have to make a poll to decide...you're not ready!! Don't rush it. Youll know when it's time.

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Don't do it unless you're absolutely comfortable with it. Think about it like this, you're giving this guy your virginity and he'll be leaving soon after. That would kinda bug me, personally.

Talk to him and be honest. There's no shame in being a virgin and wanting to wait and make it special.

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I'd say no, tell him the truth and about how you feel.

I have been bestfriends with this guy for 2 years, he's going to the Air Force soon. we both want to have sex before he leaves, but I'm a virgin and he doesn't know, should I? (he's 3 years older than me.. I'm kinda crushing)

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