Advice please!! Honestly ladies I'm stuck between how I should be acting towards this situation. I'm 18 years old I live with my boyfriend, and his grandma. I pay rent, buy groceries, give the family rides not the ones I live with either but other relatives also. Here's the problem my boyfriends brother, and his pregnant girlfriend have done nothing but be ungrateful and rude. I have been living here since December and I told his brother I would help him with rides for free for a little while, but this is when they took advantage of the situation. The brother would ask for rides around town, and every time I would say yes. But as time continued he would ask for further rides, and even when he would get his paycheck he would respond with "I cant," and I let things slide for months until about may. During may the girlfriend had made a post about needing a ride for her boyfriend, so my boyfriends mom calls us to ask. My response even though it was completely out of nowhere was yes, but guess what the moment we got over there he wasn't there his girlfriend had already got him. When we had realized he wasn't there I was furious, and I took my boyfriend phone and responded on her post with "you disrespected my girlfriend" it wasn't rude but they thought it was my boyfriend so fast forward to June 9th we had his brothers clothes over here, and I wanted to take them to him before throwing them away. So upon arrival I had a baby shower gift for this woman, and I handed it to her She says thanks and that's it nothing more. When the brother comes out I ask if he saw the gifts and he said no, and I told him what I got a cute monkey onesie, another outfit plus a card that had little animals on it! I had wrapped that present, and taken my time on it because I felt like I was the one in wrong. Shortly after handing his brother his clothes after he comes outside we talk and I and ask if he wanted to see his grandma, and he said yes. So we were going to do that but when me and my boyfriend get in the car he goes to ask his girlfriend but before he does, wait for it. He has literally spent already spent a minute begging at my window making me cry for the previous event that they asked for help with. I was so upset so I got out of the car and went inside and said sorry. But after that moment later in the day I was angry and realized I wasn't in the wrong so I tried to talk to this girl(she's like 23) over Facebook and i tried to word my words so I wouldn't upset her, and she kept being rude like maybe you should've said nothing at all then. And I finally couldn't take it so I called her a rude a** b****, and blocked her. She got upset posted the whole conversation to Facebook, and called me fake and how she wanted to kick my a**.
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