My mom got some things for my FIRST baby, from a friend of hers , so obv those things are used . Like she got this car seat , first of all its blue and black, I'm having a girl. Second it's a bit dirty and she's like we can wash the clothe of it and it will be brand new . Noooo , I don't want these used things . I want my daughter to have brand new things that are new and clean and the way I prefer . 😒 LET ME JUST ADD before your start judging, my hubby's already sending me money to buy brand new things for the baby, I don't have a money problem that I can't buy it , my point of this post was that I don't know how to tell her I don't want these things , because they are all boy related , and well they are dirty .