Annoyed of comments saying csection is easier

I e had two csections. This will be my third . Once one always one theory.  Whoever I tell says oh that's so much better. Man and women have said it.   No it really isn't easier just u get the pain later. I felt it all the cutting the strenching all of it. I had threw up the medicine and my second the epidural wore off. I couldn't stand up straight for days and still have ab weakness. I had caught a bad infection at the wound due to unsanitary conditions at the hospital and had spent an extra week in the hospital.  I wish I could push my baby out but their fear is always bursting your uteran wall.    Either way I just want the healthiest best option for me and baby but I admit I'm a bit scared to do it again via csection.