Upset....

Jennifer
Has anyone had a bad experience with their OB? Yesterday I had some bleeding and it alarmed me. So I called my doctors office and of course it's a weekend and the answering service answered. I explained what was going on. And got to "this is an emergency line only, you're going to have to call back tomorrow between 8-5." And I told the guy okay I'm 24 weeks pregnant and bleeding and you just want me to call back tomorrow? All he had to say was if I was concerned to go to Urgenct care or call the labor and delivery unit at the hospital. I hung up crying and upset. My husband was angry and so was my mother in law and she called that number back and demanded to speak to my doctor. My doctor then calls me. She asked me if I was even pregnant (how could you not know?)... How far along I was... And what was my problem.. She sounded annoyed and said that bleeding could happen after sex... (I had sex two days ago)... This was not from sex. Although she insisted it was. And not to go to the hospital unless the bleeding was in the amount of a menstral cycle bleed.  And that I needed to make sure that I called my mother in law and let her know that we spoke.... My question is why tell me to call anytime 24/7 if I have any problems or concerns but be treated as if I'm am ruining your weekend. What is considered an emergency for your emergency line?... I have an appointment with her next week and I feel like I'm going to be upset because I can't let go of the fact that I feel like she treated not only me but my child as if he didn't matter.... The bleeding has stopped and I have a Doppler and my sons heart sounds good and he is kicking a lot, but seeing blood scared me.