Is this an issue?

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My boyfriend goes through my phone a lot and looks through everything and through conversations and drills me with questions about everything. There is never anything to find because I'd never do anything to hurt our relationship. But I have never gone through any of his things at all. Do you know why he would want to go through me things?

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My mother always told me it is the jealous ones who are doing the cheating. Listen t your woman's intuition it is never wrong, and I'm guessing since your asking the question you already know the answer to what your intuition is telling you

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Going through your things is a sign of insecurity and control. Have you tried to go through his phone? 9 times out of 10, he would have a problem with it and find some sort of excuse as to why u shouldn't go through his things...end that now, it's not necessary and it's rude, and overall stupid as hell!

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Probably because he is insecure, controlling, or doing shady things himself. That is not normal and not a healthy relationship.

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My husband NEVER, EVER goes through my phone. EVER. I've asked him why he doesn't want to and he said it's because he trusts me fully. You have a huge problem on your hands if he can't trust you and has to give you the third degree. If you've never broken his trust, this is a big problem. If you have; then it's sort of understandable, but you should talk to him about a time-limit for "earning" trust back. Like after 6 months - 1 year of him finding nothing on your phone, it progresses to no checking. Just my opinion.

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I had a boyfriend that did that, and let's just say that relationship didn't last long. You can expect to build trust if everything you say has to be investigated every time.

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Probably because he's cheating and he keeps checking if you do so he will have an excuse to dump you. Leave now

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Yes, it's absolutely an issue. Leave before it gets worse. I had a boyfriend who started doing the same and it just kept getting worse. He had serious jealousy and insecurity issues which, after we broke up, lead to stalking issues.
Someone who loves you, trusts you.

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It might not be that he doesn't trust you but he might have trust issues in general, or he might be very territorial of you... a poll won't help you solve this babe!

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Does he let you go through his? Some people do that because they have something to hide themselves.

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Insecure .......my hub does the same but doesnt drill me about everything hes just so damn nosey idc if he goes through it though cause i never do anything
I go through his whenever i feel like it 
Its need to be 50/50  talk to it about your s/o