What if I don't feel butterflies with anyone?

So.. I feel like this is my season to learn to love myself & focus on me. Lately, any interaction I've had with a guy, no one gave me butterflies. No one has grabbed my attention enough to make me feel like a little girl again and get all excited. Because of this, I'm starting to truly believe that if you don't get butterflies in your stomach when either texting them, seeing them, or even talking on the phone they aren't the one for you. Does anyone else agree? Or am I not being realistic? I no longer want to settle in any relationship because I never end up happy. And when I settled into those relationships, I have never felt those butterflies and now I see how important they are. It's like my senses and my body are both telling me something about this person.. Any advice or thoughts?