Does it make yal mad???

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I know everyone is entitled to their own opinions and emotiond BUT it makes me somewhat mad.....when I see some posts about being "mad they can't conceive baby #2 " when some chick's  are on here really struggling because theyve never been pregnant or had nothing but miscarriages.When I see comments on how much their going crazy because they can't conceive baby #2 it annoys the heck out of me!I mean it must be bummer when you've had something and  want it again but can't get it.But what about when you haven't even been able to get this "thing" once.Ughhh yal feel me????

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A woman who can't get pregnant again still goes through the same emotional turmoil a woman that can't get pregnant at all goes through... When I had 6 miscarriages I felt incomplete even though I had 2 kids already... It's very hard on a woman no matter her situation or number of children when she can't complete a pregnancy

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I feel the same way because I can't even conceive #1.  The one thing God put women on earth for, I can't seem to do.  Feel like such a failure not only as a wife, but as a woman.  Not trying to bash anyone.  Just my opinion.  It's hurtful to see women fuss about baby #2.  Be grateful for #1!  Some of us don't have that luxury.   :(

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I know how you girls feel I have two sisters one has 5 children and the other one has two and one on the way and here I am still praying for number one :(

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Honestly I feel the same way, I get sensitive everytime I see it on here! I have pcos which makes it harder for me to conceive!

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I do when I think about it.  We have been trying to conceive for a year now.  My brother has 3 kids, all unplanned, and almost all of my cousins get pregnant just by sneezing.  Then there's me.  I just honestly try not to think about it.

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It makes me very mad. I've been trying for baby #1 for a year now with nothing ?

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I kinda feel the same way but then again it doesn't really get to me. I had a MC in 2011 and I was 5 weeks along. I haven't really tried to get pregnant but I would love to have me a rainbow baby :). My favorite cousin just had her little girl and I'm happy for her. I have learn to accept that it just isn't my time.

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Its the same struggle why would that make you mad. They are still buying those pregnancy tests hoping it will be positive just like you are doing. Going though emotional changes and disappointments . I just cant believe some of these posts and the way people are thinking.  But hey baby dust to you !!

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Wow... I don't think bringing a human in the world is about how much you want that "thing" (awful comparison)
But is about how ready you are to give a human a good life, GOOD EDUCATION, and love. 
Kids grow... They are babies over a year and then they are on their way to be independent one day, but why should you compare parenthood or a human being with "thing"? 
Doesn't really show you're so ready.

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Ummm... I thought the whole point of the TTY forums was for women of all backgrounds to come together, talk, share of experiences and knowledge and help each other through hard times. We all have the same goal, and unity, building each other up, being there for each other, that's the whole point. You are drawing lines in the sand that need not be there, causing pointless drama and harmful divisions. Everyone is here with the same purpose in mind, whether trying for their first, third or eighth. We should all stand together, there's strength in unity, weakness in division. It's a simple conclusion, really. This is stupid, useless drama.