I need to vent !!!

Okay ladies I need your help on how to fix this problem , because honestly if I were to handle it the way my anger is wanting me to it would not be good !! Me and my husband have been together TWO years . We'll today there was a big family fued on his moms side of the family , we'll he mentioned it to me when he got home from work .. So More went down later between him and his grandmother I asked him what was said an he told me to stay out of his business .. I was highly pissed and went in the bedroom I came out a little bit later and he was on the phone with his mom probably telling her everything ! It's so upsetting because why yes that is his mom , but I'm his wife ? He talks to her way more then he does me about anything .. It's not fair to me .. But there's no talking to him about it .. I can't really relate to their bond because my mom is a totally different person now then she was while I was growing up an I feel like she's a stranger to me now .. But I feel like I have nobody